Monday, July 16, 2012

A Southern Cook's Bucket List


A few years ago a movie came out called The Bucket List, staring Morgan Freemen and Jack Nicholson. This movie was about two men making a list of things they wished to do before they die. Well, lately my friends and I have been kicking around the idea of just such a list. I don’t think anyone has gone so far as to write anything down but I am sure there have been a few mental lists made. 
     I have always been interested in fine china and some of the beautiful old patterns, so one of the things on my personal list has been to go the Greensboro, NC to a place called Replacements, LTD. This is a company that specializes in finding discontinued china, crystal, and silver. Bob Page started collecting old sets and odd pieces in his attic and helping people find missing pieces in 1970. The business soon out grew the attic and by 1981 had become a full time business.  Page left his job as auditor for the state of North Carolina to devote all of his time to the growing business.  That business now covers 4000,000 square feet (the size of 7 football fields). And they are actually in the process of adding a new warehouse.
They not only carry discontinued patterns, but are the go-to place when looking for extras and helping to complete a set you have been collecting or for gifts. Check their Web site at www.replacements.com. This is a great place to do research and to identify unknown patterns.  
     If you have items to sell they are always interested. They will evaluate your items and give you a quote. I took a set of dishes with me on my trip knowing we would be going there. For years I have done business with them by e-mail and phone and read about their museum. The showroom is wonderful and beautifully laid out, not just stacks of dishes and silver. I took the tour and got to see the behind the scenes. They have more than 340,000 patterns, some of which are more than 100 years old. Without the computer age this place could not exist. Think of the huge inventory problem of keeping track of all those items.
     This stop was only the first of our loosely planned trip. I wanted to reconnect with as much family as I could. I had not seen my dad’s side of the family for 35 years, which includes my aunt and uncle, my father’s siblings, and several cousins of my generation, who all live on the East Coast. These are people I spent summer vacations with and even aa to school with in Southport, NC. There is also a wonderful beach there that I am sure I learned to walk on. Putting my feet in that sand during the trip was a moving experience that I will never forget. This trip made me feel so much closer to my family.  It was great to learn all about them and their adult lives, after only knowing each other as kids.
     We went on to Charleston, South Carolina and had time to spend with a cousin who I had hardly known. He is a certified tour guide for five states and we spent time seeing through his eyes the historic city of Charleston. We immersed ourselves in the atmosphere of the old city and the wonderful food it is famous for.
     Also, I am seeing the senior generation with more open eyes. I understand what they are going through and know my turn will come. All of a sudden my bucket list became a lot more important. There are a lot of things I have said one of these days I would like to see or do. Well, those days are here and I better get busy.
     Let me hear from you. I can be reached at PatsChat@livingston.net

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